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August 13, 2025
Let’s be real — hair oiling isn’t just one-size-fits-all. Sure, our mums and grandmothers had their magical blends that seemed to work for everyone, but the truth is, your hair type (and your goals) can make a big difference in which oils work best for you.
I’ve been there — trying every oil under the sun, wondering why my fine hair felt heavy one week or why my dry ends still looked frizzy the next. The secret? Choosing the right oil and using it the right way.
Step 1: Know Your Hair Type
Before you start pouring oil onto your scalp like it’s a cooking show, figure out where your hair stands:
- Fine or thin hair– Can get weighed down easily. Needs lightweight oils that nourish without making it greasy.
- Thick or coarse hair– Loves richer oils for deep hydration.
- Dry or damaged hair– Needs intense moisture and protection from further breakage.
- Oily hair/scalp– Benefits from balancing oils that don’t clog pores.
Step 2: Match Your Oil to Your Hair
Here’s my quick cheat sheet:
- Argan Oil– Lightweight, great for fine hair and frizz control.
- Sweet Almond Oil– Softens without heaviness, ideal for everyday use.
- Coconut Oil– Deeply nourishing, perfect for thick, curly, or dry hair.
- Castor Oil– Amazing for hair growth, but best when mixed with a lighter oil.
- Gingelly Oil (Sesame Oil)– Moisturises and strengthens — a Desiocks favourite ingredient.
And of course, our Desiocks blend combines gingelly oil, fenugreek, curry leaves, and black cumin seeds — a mix that works across hair types, but really shines for anyone looking to strengthen and nourish from the roots up.
Step 3: Apply It the Right Way
Here’s my quick cheat sheet:
- Argan Oil– Lightweight, great for fine hair and frizz control.
- Sweet Almond Oil– Softens without heaviness, ideal for everyday use.
- Coconut Oil– Deeply nourishing, perfect for thick, curly, or dry hair.
- Castor Oil– Amazing for hair growth, but best when mixed with a lighter oil.
- Gingelly Oil (Sesame Oil)– Moisturises and strengthens — a Desiocks favourite ingredient.
And of course, our Desiocks blend combines gingelly oil, fenugreek, curry leaves, and black cumin seeds — a mix that works across hair types, but really shines for anyone looking to strengthen and nourish from the roots up.
No matter what oil you choose, the magic is in the method:
- Warm it slightly– Just a few seconds; warm oil absorbs better.
- Massage into the scalp– Use your fingertips in gentle circular motions to stimulate blood flow.
- Work it down the lengths– Focus on the ends for dryness.
- Leave it in– At least 30 minutes; overnight if you can.
- Wash with care– Don’t scrub too hard — your scalp is delicate!
Bonus Tips from Mum’s Book
- For extra shine, wrap your hair in a warm towel after oiling.
- If you’re worried about greasiness, apply just to the mid-lengths and ends.
- Consistency is everything — oiling once a week is better than once every blue moon.
Final Thoughts
The right hair oil isn’t just about the bottle you buy — it’s about finding what works for you and sticking with it. For me, the perfect blend is one that connects me to my roots, makes my hair feel healthy, and turns “self-care” into something I actually look forward to.
So go ahead — experiment, mix, and match until you find your perfect match. Your hair will thank you, and you might just fall in love with the ritual along the way.